Children and dating after divorce
The program is offered to you in 12 digestable parts.
Dating after divorce with kids…good luck with that…It’s impossible! I’m sorry to hear that your life as a married father is now officially over. We are not as brutal as Lions (they kill the children of other men), but most of us of raising another man’s seed.
And I won’t tell you that your kids are a disadvantage because they are not. I’m sorry to hear that your marriage didn’t work out.
I won’t tell you that it’s impossible because it’s not. Women are more open to dating divorced men who have children. Now she can decide if she wants to place the order.
The issue of dating arises in every session of “Co-parenting After Divorce” I facilitate.
After working with thousands of families, I have come to believe that dating and remarriage are among the biggest risk factors for children of divorce.
The park is the perfect place to meet women after divorce. Oh, and don’t forget the introverted (and mostly family-oriented) girls who come to the park to read. Smile at a girl who’s reading a book while she’s relaxing on a bench. Now she knows that she has to buy the whole package.
I once worked with one child whose Mom told me that she was not introducing her boyfriend to her children as a boyfriend, only as a friend. When you consider dating after a divorce, and especially before you introduce your child or children to a new partner, there are some very important factors you should evaluate. Let’s all agree to treat them with the love, respect and caring that they deserve, especially during the divorce process.But I’m not sorry for the huge opportunity you have right now. I can’t be sorry for someone who doesn’t see the opportunity that’s right in front of his eyes.. Take your time; it is important to proceed with confidence in your choices.
Keep in mind that your children are on the top of your priority list.
In fact, last month I coached a guy who was in the exact same situation.