Christian cowboy dating sites
'Seems to be the real dilemma between getting teaching in churches that suggests God has a plan for your life (including a possible partner) and then we need to wait on Him versus dating websites where you need to try and 'sell' yourself to potential candidates.Takes a lot of energy and courage.''I have personally been selective about who I have told, because some Christians I know disapprove and think that if it's God's will, it should happen without us being pro-active like that, especially as a woman…I want to tell them not to apply for any jobs next time they are unemployed, because if God means them to have a job, they can just [sit] in the house and wait for him to bring them one!''It's great that this is becoming more acceptable.Others wanted to see adverts that might appear filtered (even though these are usually under the control of their Web browser), and the remainder focused on expectations around responding to complaints.'I used another site and was attempted to be scammed three times, by men pretending to be Americans or Europeans working abroad, Christians, or working in the UK.Some said that they had made good friends through dating services (an option that is presented in many), some disappointed that they hadn’t found a relationship but only friends. It takes too much time and effort with little fruition. (The usual Christian obsession with marriage rearing its head again.) What's wrong with looking for a girlfriend?!''I found a lot of the men on the site were not really interested in meeting a partner.
The Christian sites tend to reflect the same problems of the Church.' There were also suggestions for additional functionality.
I think people on the Christian sites are not serious in their search for a marriage partner, they seem to be more interested in using the site to widen their group of friends and acquaintances.
I no longer use the site but look at the discussion boards.
I tend to liken it to giving your details to a job agency, which is exactly where all the jobs are!
' There were some comments about a shopping mentality and that selecting people to approach was choosing by appearance. Didn't like the person I became, 'boy shopping' based on photos and a few stats.Some commented that they experienced they became 'judgemental' in selecting or not selecting people with whom they might begin an online conversation. Plus the potential for disappointment when eloquent writers fail to match that with conversation.' Most of the specific comments covered the desire to meet more face to face, in events, Christian holidays and so on.