Dating an older man while in college
While our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us Dignity Daters, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice.Now that you have access to the Dating with Dignity’s Men’s Advice Column (Starting with these seven dating tips for women from men! Don’t let a man become the center of your universe.If you’re consistently calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, a man won’t have to lift a finger. This is not to say that you can’t ever reach out to a man you’re dating, but let him do the asking out–at least in the early stages. You deserve someone who wants to reach out to you, call you, and ask you out.If you’re both interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the amount of communication. As scary as it may seem to talk to your man about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing other people. As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen to your best guy friend’s advice, not all men are the same.While you might think it cute to have three glasses of wine at dinner, he does not. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. One guy told us that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it!Best to leave your glass half full and your plate empty(ish).If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered!Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
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Have been dating a young man who is still in college and younger than me..working in one of the libraries..is not a problem to me but a few months ago he has been acting strange like not payong so much attention to me like not calling or texting back..I broke up with him 2months ago then met a new guy who is mature and running his own business..is so nice and we hang out a lot, I am in love with as he is with me.